You and Your Wedding Car Driver

Married couple Denbies, Dorking
Two happy people at Denbies Wine Estate, Dorking

During the wedding planning stage you have probably looked at dozens of web sites. Many of which will have beautiful photographs and stress just how good they are.

 

So many wedding service providers loose track of the purpose and reason for their services, it not about them or me as wedding service providers.

 

It is about a

                  Girl on her Wedding Day

                                                     The Bride

                                                                      You 

                                                                                   and nothing else

 On Your Big Day the car of your choice (hopefully) or the car that you have been obliged to have will pull up outside your home or hotel.

 

Curtains will twitch and neighbours will start to get excited and pop out with cameras (phones these days) wanting a look and photograph of you in your full wedding kit.

 

Yes the vehicle will always - regardless of choice - have that WOW factor on arrival but in reality it is mainly due to the imminent appearance and first look at you The Bride. 

You and your Wedding Car Driver have in common

The one thing guaranteed on every wedding is that neither you nor your driver will have a clue as to your emotional state as you depart for your wedding ceremony.

The last thing you want is a driver who is so in love with himself and his car you become just a product.


So much is written about viewing the vehicle - which is a must with unique vintage wedding cars - but how much is written about 'interviewing your driver'


A fantastic car driven by a useless driver who has no interest in you or your wedding makes your day so much less relaxing and enjoyable but may look good in photographs.

2 trips Bridesmaids then return for The Bride
2 trips Bridesmaids then return for The Bride

By the time I have arrived at your door we would have already shared many an email and a few telephone chats.

 

Covering not only your detailed vision of your Big Day but also many bridal tips and hints. 

 

The rapport we would have built up over preceding months allowing you to fully relax and know it was a friend who was going to not only drive you but also take exceptional good care of you.

Controlling Bridal Emotions

To be fair most brides do very well in 'keeping it together' on the journey from house to wedding ceremony.  That said most brides have that 'bottom lip quiver' as they arrive at their wedding venue.


Relaxed timings and bridal arrival times - which we would chat to you about weeks before - can ease this last minute nervous emotion.

A few memorable moments as a Wedding Car Driver

When I knock on the Bride's door I very much expect Dad to come out with a relieved look on his face to get out of a house full of women and have another bloke to talk to - sensible move by Dad.

 

Mum will often welcome me in mild panic - "She has not got her wedding dress on yet" No problem I always 'go with the flow'. Weddings are not military operations so some slippage in timings has to be expected and allowed for in good grace. 

Loosely House Bride 

Well I arrived the normal ten minutes early to be greeted by the bride still in her dressing gown, champagne in one hand and chocolate in the other. The girl was even more relaxed than me even though we had a one hour drive down to Loosely House. 

Hampton to Richmond Bride

No chance to even get out the White Taxi and walk up the path.  This girl flew out the house and just wanted to get going. No problem by the time we had taken a couple of slow drives round Richmond Park she was very happy and relaxed when we arrived - on time- at her wedding venue.

The Raynes Park, Wimbledon Bride

So relaxed she was out in full wedding kit, glass of champagne in hand, chatting to neighbours. It was a fantastic summers day and she owned that wedding dress.

Twickenham to Richmond Bride

Well this girl was the first of three similar situations which really tested my ability to calm and relax a bride. Taking the bride on her own as Dad was due to meet her at the venue.  Again Richmond Park on a lovely summers day came to our recue. A trip round the park and some enjoyable banter and it all worked out a treat.

Chiswick House Wedding - here comes a speeding ticket?

Well Dad is outside chatting to me, bride comes out and shuts front door BUT alarm is set and house keys and Bridal Bouquet are inside. Mum has another set of keys but she is already at the wedding venue.

 

Well we got that sorted on the day but I have always ensured it never happens again on any other wedding I am driving on.

 

Everything I see done well on a wedding I will suggest to future Brides and anything that has gone slightly wrong I will always ensure it never happens to any of my girls in the future.

Greenwich Wedding - Trafalgar Tavern - The most rewarding emotionally

This was a lovely but quite young slip of a girl with no Dad on the scene - not that unusual in todays world. Everything was running rather later than desirable when the Mum came out of the hotel and said "her daughter was in tears because her Wedding Dress  was to long and she could not walk in it".   

 

It took me ten minutes of 'deportment lessons' in the hotel foyer (head up girl, shoulders back, chest out) now walk - plus a round of applause from those watching plus a bit of eye makeup and off we went to her wedding ceremony.

 

It was an absolute joy to watch that girl swish about in her wedding dress after the ceremony without a care in the word. The big hug from Mum nearly cracked me up.

That is why I am a Wedding Car Driver

Happy Bride
Happy Bride
            Twins - Double Wedding
Twins - Double Wedding
Happy Bride
Happy Bride